Thursday, June 30, 2011

Day 4


This may be my favorite picture yet! Update for today, Caroline is without an IV now! She is also officially without her own bed....she now rooms with brother in his bed. :) Cal is continuing to have bowel movements and his night nurse just told me that he is tolerating almost as much as sister in his ng tube! She is trying to get him to the point that he too can be without his IV. They both have good vital signs tonight too. Can't wait to see them tomorrow.

Update on me...I'm still pretty emotional....actually, very emotional. I'm sore and the swelling in my feet is still bad. They said to expect this. But.....my milk is in!!!!! I'm so excited to take it up to the hospital tomorrow. I've worked hard to get to carry in a bottle for my babies. Also, if you have called or txt messaged me, I'm sorry. I really appreciate the messages but understand that it's soooo busy and I promise that I will eventually get back to you. I'm trying to keep up and thank you sooo much for being concerned about us. I'm hoping to keep you updated through fb and this blog as much as I can. Love you all!

My Darlings....




Grandma's are Great!








Don't know what I would do without these wonderful women in our life?! Mom, Gina, and Nana, I know it has been so hard not being able to hold these babies but I'm so glad that y'all have had atleast one chance to get a taste of this sweetness. They are so blessed to have grandmas like you and don't know how much fun/love they have waiting in their future. Thank you so much....for everything! I love you!

Watermelon Pics



Just took pics of our photos we bought from tonight's watermelon session. I love the watermelon sessions!

Just a few Asher and Leila updates. I spent lots of time catching up with my babies tonight and today. Thanks to Nana for carting us around all day. I'm feeling better. They wanted to go see the twins today. They told me to give the twins hugs and kisses from them. They were so surprised to see the twins sleeping together and I let them watch me give them hugs and kisses. They had to blow some of their own kisses to them as I held them up to the glass too.

Someone asked Asher what his middle name was the other day. He responded, "Wood." I said, "No, that's your last name, what's your middle name?". He responded, "Jamal". Thanks Tyler!

Leila LOVES, LOVES, LOVES Tangled. She believes that she also has magic hair and loves to sing all of the Rapunzel songs. Last night, Tyler was acting like he couldn't see when he took his contacts out. (He really can't! He! He!) Leila immediately responded by putting her hair to his eyes and singing, word for word, the healing song Rapunzel sings. She did it in key and rhythm too! Tyler was healed miraculously and wanted her to repeat it over and over. Oh, he is so wrapped!

Meant to be









I was discharged from my inpatient room yesterday and admitted to a family room where I can come and go as I please. It was a VERY emotional day. I was so excited to be going home to see Asher and Leila and climb into my own bed for last night but sooooo sad to be leaving Cal and Caroline. We had dinner with the kids and my mom and dad. When we arrived at La Fiesta, Asher ran out the door and threw his arms around me and helped me walk inside. Like I said, he is my protector. After dinner, mom and dad offered to keep the kids so we could run back to the hospital to meet the night nurse and put Cal and Caroline to bed. Thanks Mom, you know always know how to make me feel better. :)

We got to the hospital and their night nurse was bathing them (their second bath) and feeding them and getting them ready for us. :) She was very sweet and organized and I immediately felt like they would be well taken care of in my absence. (Thank you Lord for comforting me through her and giving me peace....you are sooo good.) She reported that Cal had just pooped (YAY!!!) and she was increasing both of their feedings again! She said that Cal had pulled his ng tube out too......little stinker. I think he is going to love nursing! Still working on that one though. We all think he may have some reflux issues in his future too. Poor little guy. Then, she got all of our contact numbers (more comfort for Momma....PTL) and told us that she thought we needed some special private time with the twins. I'm telling you, GOD IS SO GOOD! (Just a sidenote, lots of nurses in the nicu make you feel like you aren't parents to your children and make you feel like you burden them with your presence. You know deep down they are trying to take care of your babies but it still hurts and is frustrating.) I'm so thankful that Ms. Janice had a big heart last night....it blessed us so much! We got to hold our baby burritos (Ha! They have to teach me how to swaddle this tight before the twins leave....they loved it!) in a private room and just love all over them. It was pure happiness. It was in that room last night that we thanked God for knowing better for us. We thought we were finished having children with Asher and Leila. I am so glad that we were wrong, that God took control and blessed us twice more! THIS IS HOW WE WERE MEANT TO BE! Praise God! My heart is so full and I am so in love with our family....well with everything in our life. I'm truly overcome with thanksgiving and so grateful to be a child of God. His blessings really are just raining down. We finished our snuggle time and decided it was time to go get our other two blessings to love on. When we took the twins back into Mrs. Janice, she had another surprise for us. The twins were going to get to sleep together for the first time since birth. I'm telling you my heart was melting at this point. I went home happy and comforted. Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

I had to include some baby burrito photos and Cal snoozing on his momma. He made his daddy happy too because he opened his eyes when Tyler was playing him bluegrass music. ;)

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Their Birth Story









I hope I can remember this well enough to recount the story. Asher and Leila stayed the night with Nanny/Papa on Saturday night. Tyler and I had dinner at Olive Garden and went for ice cream afterwards. Then, we made a stop by Target to buy a few last items that may be needed before the twins arrived. I can't remember exactly what we bought now but I know we walked out with milk, cereal, paper plates, and a new Backyardigans movie for Asher and Leila. Tyler was bragging that we got out of the store for less than $20.

Sunday morning, Tyler worked nuclear. Then, he got home early enough to mow the grass. I got up and started laundry, watered plants, did dishes, and cleaned the guest/kids bathroom. I started having contractions (about 15 min. apart) around 9:15am. I started getting ready for church. When Tyler came inside, I told him that I was having contractions but wasn't sure if it was the real deal and I was going to get the kids from my moms. I ironed our clothes and went to moms. I think I just told my mom that I was cramping but I remember my Dad laughing about how big my stomach looked. We got the kids ready for church, my contractions were still painful, we stopped for gas just in case we had to leave church to head to the hospital. Tyler was instructed to keep his phone on during the praise team music. I would call if I needed to go. My contractions were 8-9 minutes apart during church service. My stomach was super hard and tender to the touch. Between contractions, Cal and Caroline would go nuts with the movement but had been more still that day than normal. After church, my contractions turned into more cramp like feelings. I thought we were in the clear. I did come home and pack our hospital bag though. Tyler took a few photos of my 35 week pregnant stomach too.

Sunday afternoon, we took a nap and I woke up cramping but still no contractions. After our nap, Tyler started cleaning the car seats and I was doing laundry like a mad woman. Asher and Leila wanted to watch their new Backyardigans movie and eat supper. Tyler and I would eat after we accomplished a few more things. (I guess this was a blessing in disguise.....Dr's were so happy that I hadn't eaten since 12:30pm) When I was loading the towels into the washer, I started feeling like the consistent cramping was more like contractions again. Soon, I was doubled over in pain from contractions and knew that something was definitely going on. I went outside and told Tyler. He said to call the Dr's office for their opinion but he wanted to get the sprinkler system going before we left. I guess it's a good thing since it's been almost a 100 degrees here this week! I took a shower and called the on call service. The Dr. recommended that I come in to L&D and get checked. He didn't want me progressing at all with twins. Tyler came in and took a shower. Roger, Gina, and Haley came over to keep Asher and Leila and we gave our babies big squeezes before we left. They didn't want to stay without us though. It was sad.

We arrived at the hospital and I just knew they would be sending us back home. I was still contracting pretty good though. They were about 6-7 minutes apart. I was pretty nervous at the hospital.....worrying about having preemies mostly. I was worried about having the csection too. ;) The nurse hooked up the monitors and checked me. While she as checking, she acted surprised because Cal kicked her with his foot while she was checking. She said we would be having the twins that night. I was dilated to 4 and 70%. She said I was in active labor and my contractions were 1-2 minutes apart according to the monitor. They were worried if my water broke that the umbilical cord would be delivered first since Cal was breech. She left and came back in to start Iv's and place the catheter. When she came back, she said that we would have the twins within the hour. It was 10 o'clock. I called grandparents to tell them that they could head on up to the hospital. Physician's were called as well. To my surprise, the Dr. I have been seeing in my real Dr's absence was going to come deliver me, even though she wasn't the on call physician. I was happy to hear this. I think between my Dr. and AHEC physician's there were a total of 5 or 6 physician's in the delivery room. I was wheeled into the delivery room and got to see my Nana for a second before being taken back. It was comforting!

Once inside the csection room, I was given my spinal block. Then, they strapped me to the bed and put up the big blue sheet to block my view. Once I was totally numb, which didn't take long at all, Tyler was called in and they began. I really didn't feel much pressure when Cal was delivered. He was delivered first....butt first too. ;) I did hear his precious cries and then they started digging for Caroline. I honestly feared they may break my ribs. It was intense pressure as they worked to get her out. They announced her head was out and then that all of her was out. She didn't cry immediately....I kind of freaked out but then I heard her precious cries. They brought the babies to my head for me to see for a quick second before they let Tyler carry both of them out in his arms. I laid there and let them finish and stitch me up. It felt like an out of body experience. The nurses and physicians were wonderful though and I couldn't have hoped for a better team. I did see stars towards the end and feel like I was having a migraine aura. Also, I had heart palpitations and felt like I had a little trouble breathing. I'm sure this was related to nerves. They finished and moved me to the recovery room bed. When I got in the recovery room, the grandparents were elated because they had seen the twins through the window of the nursery. It was very exciting. A little later, we were informed that we wouldn't be able to stay with the twins that night. The Dr. said he thought that they would join us in our room by the morning. I was promised a short visit to the nursery after recovery. Our parents told us how cute they thought the twins were and headed for home a little after midnight.

Around 1:30am, Tyler and the nurses wheeled me to the nicu and I got to meet my darling babies for the first time. I looked over them and tried to memorize little things about them since I couldn't hold them and touch their dainty features. I could have stayed in there all night but went back to my room with hopes of snuggling with them in the morning. Tyler and I got back to the room and chatted about the day's events and our 4 children. It was weird (to say the least) to turn off the lights and sleep without our newborns in the room. We finally fell asleep around 3 am.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Hooray for Poop!!!!!!!!!!!!








You will probably get sick of seeing so many pictures but we are so excited to share. First, the great news, Cal pooped....twice!!! The pediatrician said that he did not believe there is an obstruction and surgery is not required at this point. They did the barium enema and Cal responded to the treatment. They believe that the problem was a meconium plug. He still isn't allowed to eat but they will re-evaluate that in the morning. Caroline is continuing to do well! Thanks for all of you who have prayed with us for the twins. I posted a few pictures of them during tummy time tonight. I even snapped a few with their eyes opened. (Caroline is red in the pictures because she was upset that they were making her do tummy time.)

What started out as a rollercoaster, emotional day has actually turned into a good day. We have enjoyed our sweet visitors so much. I have been missing Asher and Leila like crazy and appreciate my precious time with them today. I got to sit with them on each side of me for a little tv time today....does the heart good! I can't wait to have all 4 of our babies home with us soon! Just a couple of funnies....Asher is my little protector and when I was walking around in the room, he fussed at my mom for not helping her "baby". Ha! Ha! Don't slack on your job, Nanny! ;) Leila told her Daddy tonight that if she could find a gem (aka gown) like Mommy's (we have to wear gowns in the nicu) she could sneak into the room and hold the babies. I'm so glad they want to love on their new brother and sister. Thanks to all of our family for your help this week!

Daddy


My heart is so blessed watching this man, whom I love, father our children. He is truly delighting in his time with our twins. His arms held them even before my own. They do not know yet what a treasure they have in a father like Tyler.....but I do! Thanking the Lord that he is the Daddy to our 4 children!!!!

Preemie Life






These few days with our preemie twins have been full of emotion. It was difficult to give birth to the babies and go to sleep without having held them. I can't tell you the joy I felt when I finally held my babies the next day.....held both of them together.....just as I had carried them inside of me. It may have been even sweeter than holding them immediately after birth. My heart was filled with thankfulness. I still long to be feeding them and kissing them and cradling them in my arms at my heart's desire but I am thankful for the sweet moments that we have. Yesterday, the worry was weaning them from oxygen. Last night, the worry was to get their feeding increased through their NG tubes. Cal was not tolerating formula well and did tolerate the little bit of breast milk he had. Our prayer was and still is that their feedings would go well, increase, and that my milk would hurry and come in. We know it could be soo much worse and are thankful that they continue to do as well as they do. Praising God!

This morning, the pediatrician informed us that their is another potential problem for Cal. He has not had a bowel movement. The pediatrician did a digital exam and still found no poop. Cal's stomach is slightly disstended this morning too. They have requested xrays to check for possible obstruction. Please pray that they soon find the problem and that it isn't a major problem. The pediatrician says this is what life is like with preemies. One day it is one problem and everything is going pretty well and then the next day brings new problems. They do continue to brag on the twin's size and feisty spirits. Please keep Cal and Caroline and the people caring for them in your prayers. I've been told that I will be moved to a family room tomorrow....doesn't look like our babies are coming home with us soon. Love y'all!

Monday, June 27, 2011

Introducing Cal and Caroline Wood!


We joyfully welcomed Cal and Caroline into our world on Sunday, June 26th at 10:58 (Cal) and 10:59 (Caroline)pm via c-section. Cal arrived weighing 6 lbs. and was 18 1/2 inches long. Caroline made her debut weighing 5 lbs. 11 oz. and was 18 1/2 inches long. We held our precious twin angels for the first time about 3 hours ago. They have been in the nicu and have just weaned off of oxygen. They replaced the oxygen with feeding tubes. I am trying to breastfeed by pumping but we are having to supplement with formula as well. Please pray that feeding/breastfeeding goes well for us and that our twins grow, grow, grow. It doesn't look like they will be leaving the hospital with us. :( However, we are VERY thankful that they are doing as well as they are. I'll update more later. Thanks for your prayers. We are totally in love!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

ARGH! Pirates!



Birthday party, tball game, and swimming....check! The kids were excited to play on their pirate ship from Asher's 4th birthday.....whoops. They also showed off all of the things they have been learning at swim lessons. Date night with hubby tonight! :) I really do LOVE him sooooo much.....even if he teases me about EVERY pregnancy related issue I have. Tyler, I know that you will miss my big pregnant belly and you will even be sad that you will never see it or the waddle again. We are getting old, Honey, and our making babies phase of life is about to come to an end! (kinda sad when I put it like that) Also, I know that you think my ankles (excuse me, cankles) are HOT! Ha! Ha! Ha!

Friday, June 24, 2011

Fun filled Friday!











The kids and I had a fun Friday. We started the day by making sun tea. They really liked watching it brew in the sun throughout the day. Then, we went to a garage sale. The kids found a 25 cent hedgehog stuffed animal and a 5 cent McDonald toy. They were as happy as could be! We stopped by Paul's Bakery and let them pick out two iced sugar cookies. We had lunch at home and decided to make some homemade lemonade. We softened the lemons outside and made our lemonade. Yummy! Asher says he doesn't like homemade lemonade because of all the seeds. Crazy boy! Atleast they know how it's made now. After swim lessons, Daddy took us to see Cars 2. Leila fell asleep about 5 minutes into the movie. She crashed into the arm rest face first....her Daddy held his princess the rest of the movie. Tonight, we went to get Asher a new pair of khaki shorts because his were too small. We bought a size 6! What?! My babby boy is growing up too fast. It has been a great day of doing ordinary around town things. Also, take a look at my hibiscus. I think it likes it's new home!!!!